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Nov 28, 2023Liked by Shira Gill

I will not decorate every little place in my home. Less is better. Also, I WILL be donating excess holiday decorations to Goodwill this week!

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Nov 28, 2023Liked by Shira Gill

I will not feel pressured to keep up traditions that stress me out.

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Nov 28, 2023Liked by Shira Gill

amen to this!!!

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Nov 28, 2023Liked by Shira Gill

I love this. We are what we allow and that includes being a slave to our traditions.

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Nov 28, 2023Liked by Shira Gill

I have Christmas decorations stored in plastic bins. Any decorations that I do not love, or do not even display this Christmas will be donated.

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That’s mine too. If I don’t use it, it gets donated instead of stored in the garage again!

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Nov 28, 2023Liked by Shira Gill

I will not compare my family to other families and instead will focus energy on what makes the holidays special to my family.

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Ooh such a good one! x

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I will not participate in useless gifting only donations to charities that have meaning for me.

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Brilliant. I love this one! x

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Nov 29, 2023Liked by Shira Gill

I will not make buying gifts, decorating, or attending events more important than being kind to my family.

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Nov 28, 2023Liked by Shira Gill

I will not waste time thinking of a thing to buy someone just because a list told me to! I will find a more meaningful way

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I will not hold onto expectations of what I “think” others want or expect of me during this season which always results in extra stress and anxiety.

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Nov 30, 2023Liked by Shira Gill

I will not drink only eggnog for the entire month like it is its own food group 😂.

I’m also making hand-making ornaments with the kids instead of buying any new ones, they are more special anyway!

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HA! Love these. x

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Nov 28, 2023Liked by Shira Gill

I will not say "yes" to every little ask if it is going to interfere with my holiday enjoyment. Also, specifically for Anne, I packaged some holiday decorations that I felt guilty about parting with because they were given to me by my parents, and off to Goodwill they went! (My dear husband got them out of the house before I could change my mind.)

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I will not try to please everyone this holiday season. Only saying yes to the things that really light me up!

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Nov 28, 2023Liked by Shira Gill

I will not spend more than my pre-set budget per kid out of guilt because the items they want are expensive and small and the gifts will look small out of worry for what others will think.

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1. I will not sit after 10pm watching YouTube/Instagram/Facebook reels.

2. I will not purchase anything - thru any medium - grocery included for four days in a week.

3. I will not consume animal products have milk or eggs or meat or use leather/silk on Tuesdays and Fridays.

All from today. It's powerful to say will not for 4 days instead of will do only for 3 days... Thank you.

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Nov 28, 2023Liked by Shira Gill

Not going into overspend mode which always stresses me out come January when I have to “rein it at all in” again. Also, not drinking this holiday season for the first time! Woot!

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Nov 28, 2023Liked by Shira Gill

I will not impose rigid schedules on my family on Christmas Day and instead see where the day takes us!

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Nov 28, 2023Liked by Shira Gill

I won’t buy any new clothes for myself and my kids until I sell/donate/recycle the pile I’ve set aside but haven’t gotten around to tackling yet.

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